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The transgender blues: If my husband was always a she, were we ever really an us?

The transgender blues: If my husband was always a she, were we ever really an us?

Every time Caitlyn Jenner makes headlines, I can't help but think of Kris, her ex-wife. Kris may put on a smile and say how lovely Caitlyn looks, how brave she is, how well things are going for her, but Kris has revealed some less charitable thoughts too. I'd bet she is actually raw and angry and sad. I'd put money on it because I too am the ex-wife of a trans woman. "I feel like it didn't exist," Kris says in a video you can find online. Her mascara runs. She's crying about the life she lived with Caitlyn nee Bruce. I said much the same thing, but the words I used were "negated" and "erased." If my husband was really always a she,...

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