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This week's DP Buzz question: If you could give this year's graduating high school seniors one piece of advice, what would it be?
No matter what your next move, keep learning.
Nothing that happened in the last 12 years matters even a little bit.
Have a dream. Set a goal. Pursue your dream. Follow your goal. It will lead you to your destination. Celebrate small successes. Embrace the bumps. They are your mentors. Work hard. Respect and learn from others. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Laugh at yourself. Smile at others. And congratulations!
Be different from the crowd. Set high standards for yourself and stick to those. You will be rewarded in many different ways..Go to college if at all possible. You will never regret doing that.
Be present in mind and body, fully engaged, and focused on the task, class, or relationship at hand. We live in a highly distracting world; those who can truly "be present" for all of college life will gain the most from every experience. My other advice: always attend class. Missing a college class is like missing two weeks in high school.
John E. Byers
Choose to happen to life rather than have life happened to you. Take pride in what you do, in what you achieve, in how you contribute to the community. Value more what you produce than what you consume.
Do what your heart and conscience call you to do, not what you think society expects of you. There are no rules about what constitutes a good life. Nor is there any one good life. Find out what's important to you. And pay attention to global warming and super viruses.
Follow the Golden Rule in everything you do---and study hard if you go on to college, our Shipyard Apprentice School, or a craft school to learn a trade.
Establish relationships built to last. Forge healthy and reliable friendships you can trust. A friend is someone you well know and regard with affection and trust; avoid toxic relationships. Commitments may take three to five years, involving formative and normative stages, creating storms. Through open and honest communication, invite reform.
Steven M. Yedinak
Take responsibility for yourself, now. Many will help you, but you must decide who you are and how you contribute to society. Internalize President Kennedy's words, "ask not what my country can do for me, ask what can I do for my country." Only you can reverse an opposing trend.
James City County
As a recent high school graduate, time is your most valuable resource. Yet, it is a resource that can not be replenished. Time can be your greatest ally, or it can be a formidable opponent. Use it wisely. Persistence and determination are the keys to getting the most out of your time.
Realize that you will get old and prepare early to provide for your own well being later by not putting all of your financial eggs in one basket; diversify. Don't depend on government programs to take care of you; they may no longer exist.